Christy, maybe it's hard for people to tell you whether or not you should cut your hair (which is the poll I think you're speaking about) when they have no photo reference to look at. I know that's true for me, so I didn't vote. I consider you a friend (and I hope you do the same) so I'm a bit insulted at you saying people don't care about you.

As for memes, some people don't do memes and some others say "I'll do it later." and forget about them. Nothing major really. Memes are just memes.

Sure, it would be nice if I could say "Don't do a meme if you're looking for attention." but that's what they're there for. At the same time, one shouldn't take them so seriously that they risk offending people who choose not to reply to them or simply forget.